45th National Day ; My wishes and concerns

Live our Dreams, Fly our Flag

This year, 2010, marks the 45th year of Independance for Singapore from its neighbour Malaysia. Formerly a part of the Malayan peninsula, Singapore's early history was fraught with tensions due to political, racial and economic reasons. But with the strong leadership of the PAP government and a supportive electorate, it has weathered the many uncertain times over the last 45 years and recently ridden out 3 major crises (1997-99 Asian Financial), 2003 SARS and 2008-ongoing with amazing speed and resoluteness.

As a Singaporean, I am grateful for many things, racial and religious harmony for one. A united people based on a meritocratic society offering each and every able citizen equal oportunities in work, business and play. A fast paced, shopping and food paradise which is the envy of many countries world-wide. Recently, an article which stood out was this, the Macau casino boss Stanley Ho sent his private jet to Singapore to buy durians and gave some to his pal, Li Kar Shing. Even tycoons favour the flavours of the hoi polloi (ordinary people). How fortunate.

My 5 wishes this National Day is this ;

1. let us all move towards being a more gracious and caring society.

2. Lets not judge people in materialistic terms (that is how much people are worth) ; rather how much good a certain person has done on a weekly,monthly and yearly basis. That should be the benchmark rather than where one lives,how much is his net worth and what car he / she drives.

3. let us all be good parents and role models for the next generation, transmitting the best values for them and inculcating in their minds the values of hard work, thrift and compassion for their fellow citizens or new migrants.

4. Lets accept the foreign migrants into our society and teach them our 'Singapore way' of striving for the best with total transparency and accountability of our actions.

5. Lets face our ageing society head on and be prepared to work as long as necessary to enjoy the excellent quality of life which can be offered here provided we have the means.

My 6 worries for this National Day is this :

1. The casinos are likely to undermine our social fabric as they will lead more people downward the debt spiral and hence only reinforce the gambling culture. The 'get rich quick' mentality will only prevail leading to higher expectations of quick returns for less effort. This attitude is quite worrisome.

2. The rising costs of housing,cars and general foodstuff will continue unabated. That means a hyperinflation worry

3. Structural unemployment means that more and more of our PMETs will be facing new challenges in either lowering their job expectations downwards and move to another field but in a lower capacity or moving overseas to continue pursuing their careers in their fields but in foreign country.This is especially true for people who are 40 years of age and above.

4. Housing costs are pushing people out of the inner city, and ordinary Singaporeans are being priced out of the private property market.

5. Global warming, leading to massive weather changes, as a result flooding in Singapore and other parts of Asia, as well. This may be only the start of other natural disasters to come.

6. SARS has hit, a H1N1 virus mutation has happened and our medical defences have been up to the mark, but for how long ?

Happy 45th Birthday Singapore.

Flo Rida featuring Dave Guetta - Club cant handle me Right Now

Awesome Song and Killer Dancing

Great Teochew Food at Decent Price - Quan Le Yuan

Cold Crab - Signature Teochew Dish

Tucked away on Henderson road, are several top class Teochew coffeeshops converted to Restaurants. I have been to 1 such restaurant, called Quan Le Yuan, it is as 21 Henderson Road and it is next to the famous neighbour at 19 Henderson Road, called Mu Liang Zai Liang Kee. According to my friend and lunch buddy, Stanley Wong, these restaurants have been around for more than 25 years (!) since he was a young teenager. Although the estate has changed tremendously, what with new condominiums sprouting up every year around the Bukit Ho Swee and Bukit Merah neighbourhood, these restaurants cum coffeshops are still doing a roaring business.


Great lunch for 2 at decent price

3 weeks ago I had lunch with Betty, a friend from Hong Kong,and although I wanted to try the No. 19, , it was closed on a Monday so popped over to No. 21 and it was a serendipitous (pleasant surprise) occasion. The signature dish of Teochew Cold Crab, was sweet and went well will the red chilli padi sauce. In Hong Kong, they serve it with Worchestire sauce from Lea and Perrins. Ever mindful of my cholesterol level, I limited my intake to 2 pieces of the small but excellent tasting crab.


Briased Goose - as good as the one we had in Hong Kong last year

Next, the braised goose.Soft and easily digestible, it was also very tasty and the side of tau kwa (bean curd cake) made it all the more a complete nutritious dish with tau yoo sauce. It was a personal favourite of mine.



Sambal Kang Kong - Yummy

The sambal kangkong was a very nice surprise too. Fresh and crunchy, it had an aromatic smell to it and just the right amount of sambal not burning one's lips and making one eat it like a healthy snack. I almost ordered a second plate - it was that tasty.

The restaurant name is also very unique, Quan Le Yuan which means, 'Every One is Happy Garden'. So for the price of $49.00 and the quality of the food, I must say we both left the coffeshop restaurant happy :).

KSK Club looking for new members

From left, Jason Chua, Roland Teo, Mr. Chia Kwek Fah, Jane Peng, Li Han, Esther Tan, Me

The Ken Shin Kai Karate club has been in existence for 12 years already. Founded by Mr. Chia Kwek Fah, it boasts over 100 alumni from Ngee Ann Polytechnic dojos (schools) and Tanglin Comunity Club and active members number around 30. I have been an active member in the dojo (school) for 8 years now and after attaining my Black Belt (1st Dan) in 2007 have still been quite regular in my training attendance.

The KSK club focusses on Shitoryu karate, one of the 4 major schools of karate taught and our members come from all walks of life, some as young as 7 years old and others in their 50s. Mr. Chia himself, is a very agile and active senior member. He has recently graduated with a degree in Sports Science from Edith Cowan University in Australia and has begun to incorporate sports science techniques into the training to add a further dimension to the age old martial art.

We occasionally have social sessions for our members to chill out and have fun such as the picture above, when Jane Peng
rejoined us from overseas studies, so its not just train and train.

Our classes are every Sunday from 6pm to 7.30pm at the Tanglin Community Centre. Course fees are $ 60 per module of 12 lessons every quarter. Grading is conducted every 3 - 4 months. All are welcome. Be prepared for a very thorough workout !

If you have any interest, you can email me at mark@qra.com.sg and I can arrange an introductory lesson (free) for you at the club.

Lessons my Mother 'taught' me

Anna Abisheganaden

My mother, Anna Abisheganaden, is one of the greatest female influences of my life, the other of course being my wife.
She was born Anna Wen, 80 years ago and came to Singapore in the late 1950s with my late por por (maternal grandmother) and her siblings 3 sisters and 1 brother to eke out a living. Times were hard in the 1950s and armed with a HSC certtificate, she started work in the Ministry of Health and rose to become the personal assistant to the then Permanent Secretary of Health Ministry, the late Mr. Eddie Ho.

She was very active in sports during her yonger days taking up swimming, badminton, martial arts (kong chian) and even the occasional tennis game at the Singapore Swimming Club at Fort Road. Ever encouraging and challenging, her enthusiasm has rubbed off on me so much that I still am very active in sports today. My father is more of the intellectual type and rarely indulged in the competitve physical activity like racquet games, but he was very much into taking daily walks and practising yoga.

Her forte which I hope has rubbed off on me is making friends and hobnobbing with both the rich and the hoi polloi (everyday people), this is one of her greatest assets. She is able to establish good if not great friends who are like her extended family of sorts. A very giving person, she has helped many people of all ages some through linking them to the best and most seasoned doctors and sometimes even paying for some person's education - all without demanding a return favour. Her generosity in 'making things happen' and quietly doing things behind the scenes is quite amazing to say the least.

She has also a very good, perhaps evan an excellent flair, for investing in property, equity (shares) and has been able to generate good profits from practically most of her long term investments.Always frugal to herself and with little wants. A trait I am still learning and still struggling to acquire. She has been a hard money lender to me too, instituting in me that money is very difficult to earn,so I had better treasure the earnings I have made and not squander it.

Mum, this post is dedicated to you, may you have many more good and joyful years.

Boys and Drains, Canals

Creative Statue near the mouth of Singapore River

This bronze statue is a very creative one where a group of young boys, are pushing each other into the river. This reminds me of my young days when I lived near a kampung in Adis Road. My family lived in a bungalow house on Adis Road, and surrounding it were 2 schools, the Methodist Girls School (MGS) and the Nan Hwa Girls School. We had 3 pariah (mixed breed) dogs named Jippy, Mickey and Scamper (named after the dog in Secret Seven I think). The private estate was a mixture of all races with the Malays living in the kampung, the Chinese and some Indians living in the terrace houses. At the end of the street was a bungalow occupying perhaps 200,000 square ft, which belonged to a very wealthy Chinese businessman, called Eu Tong Sen. His bungalow,was not occupied and was locked and there were murmurs that it was haunted.

During the times when it rained heavily, the drains would overflow, and the boys (of all races I must add) would run and jump into them and letting the muddy water flow over their bodies and pretend that the were 'shooting the rapids'. We had no idea of hygiene, cleanliness and safety except as young boys we were always on the lookout for 'fun' things to do. The screams and shouts of joy are what I remember the most. Such were the carefree days of past Singapore life.

We can never go back there again.

Why is Raffles Honoured and not Sang Nila Utama ?

Stamford Raffles Statue outside Victoria Concert Hall

Outside the Victoria Concert Hall, stands a bronze large than life statue of Sir Stamford Raffles, who was the 'founder of modern day Singapore' as according to the plaque beneath it. I question this word 'founder'. Stamford Raffles came as the British representative of the British East India Company in 1819, and there already were people already inhabiting this small island called Temasek. In fact, the story goes that Sang Nila Utama, the Indonesian prince, first came to Singapore in the 15th century and saw a lion, whereby he called this island Singa (Lion) pura (City).

Furthermore, the Dutch East India Company was already set up in the north, Malacca and this fishing village already had trading and entrepot trade for several hundred years. No doubt, Raffles wrangled the treaty away from the Dutch and developed it further using the deep water harbour as a base for ocean going ships and promoting it as the gateway for trade between the East (China, Vietnam, Indonesia) and West (UK, Spain, Portugal). Raffles' contribution was important, but Sang Nila Utama first 'founded' the island state Singapore.

Perhaps the statue was built in the early 1900s when the British empire was at its peak and needed to build statues glorifying its civil servants like Raffles, but lets have some accuracy in this fact. No Western man 'founded' Singapore.

We must shake off this mindset that West is best. West perhaps WAS BEST. East IS BETTER, NOW.