The free for all after the final whistle
Last week, the National 'B' division rugby finals was played at the Polo club with Saint Andrew's Secondary pitted against their arch rivals Anglo-Chinese School (Independent). I am a Saint Andrews Old Boy while my elder son is in ACS (I).
The final score was ACS (I) 8 , SAS 7, congratulations to ACS (I). However, an incident marred the result as immediately after the match, an ACS (I) player went over to an SAS player, patted his head and said something which infuriated the SAS player. He retaliated and in the fracas, the ACS (I) boy emerged with a chipped tooth and a broken nose. According to reports, this led to a pitch invasion as boys, parents and supporters threw punches in a melee until order was restored. Later, another boy from ACS (I) was hit at the bus stand.
The 2 schools have rightfully taken the steps to resolve the issue and uphold the principles of good sportsmanship,the SAS boy was suspended from playing in the future and made to make a public apology to the whole school, in addition, he will arrange to meet with the boy he fought. ACS on their part are also discussing with SAS on how to resolve the issues in an amicable manner. However, there are some equally culpable people who have gotten away scot-free which I feel is symptomatic
of our 'win at all costs' and 'kiasu' society.
Having been to such emotionally charged matches myself,I can understand the intense feelngs of joy, frustration, pleasure and anger at various stages of the game. I am perturbed to read in some emails circulating that outside of the pitch, there were adults who were taunting the boys in the field. Whichever team they were supporting,they were actually 'pouring oil into the fire' and antagonising the opposing team's players.
This is pathetic, the boys are men to be and at this juncture, very impressionable. So imagine if they are running by the sidelines and they are called all kinds of names.Surely, they would be psyched up even more to the point of playing recklessesly and using rough tactics just to spite the opposing supporters.
If we are to evolve as a gracious society yet rugged and mature,we need to take a hard look at ourselves and question : "what is wrong with us ?". Whether we win or lose, lets do it with style, graciousness and above all, empathy for the opposing team who have fought just as hard.
Singapore, we are a long way to developing that winner's mindset, if the Rugby 'B' Division Final is any indication of how we react to winning and losing.
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