Cricket Club Lunch Treat by My Mother 6 June 2009

My mother Anna Abisheganaden bought my family a nice lunch at the Singapore Cricket Club next to the famous Padang in downtown Civic District. She turns 79 this year and is still a very feisty and active Senior Citizen. Born in 1930, she worked in the Ministry of Health serving 4 Permanent Secretaries up till the day she retired some 10 odd years ago. She has instilled in me that sports is able to develop one's character and the many values which good sportsmen have can be applied to our working and business life.



Though she did not earn as much as my father, she managed to invest their joint income in properties in Singapore and overseas in countries such as Australia, Perth, London UK and even United States. Ever the street smart lady, she had the input of many successful lawyers,doctors and banker friends who advised her on making the correct purchases at the right time.
With the double increment of net house price increase and rental, her portfolio was pretty successful. She and my father would join several Clubs in Singapore such as the NUSS, the Cricket Club and the Singapore Swimming Club all of which I am and will be a member soon.

Noel after finishing off his Chicken Rice 

"Who dares wins" is a motto which my mother would ascribe to as her philosophy in business investment. It pretty much sums up her life as she has never been one to shy away from trying new and novel things. When she was in her forties, she was very active in the Singapore Swimming Club at Tanjong Rhu, taking an active interest in ensuring that my brother and I had rigorous swimming training. She religiously brought us to the Club at least 3 to 4 times a week after school and even on Sunday,much to my father's dismay - he wanted us to attend Church. Later on in life,after my swimming days were over, I went on to attend the service at the Saint Andrew's Cathedral at Coleman Street.

My Mother Anna Abisheganaden - a great inspiration to me.

She belongs to that generation who survived the Second World War and made tremendous sacrifices for her children.I feel truly privileged to be her son and will take on her motto in my quest for business success as well as in life.

Delicious Local Food in Coffee Shop-My Cosy Corner

The Humble Signage of My Favourite Eatery

Tucked away on the 2nd Floor of Coronation Plaza,next to the Coronation Clinic, is this gem of a food haven which has been in operation for perhaps 20 years now. Operated by Mr. Leong and his family, the devout Christian owner (his shop has Catholic artifacts and Christian Music piped in continuously) manages to dish out many very tasty Peranakan dishes from his late Aunt and has attracted a full to overflowing crowd every lunchtime. I try to eat there before 12pm or after 2pm else there is always a long wait. The dishes which I highly recommend are :

a) Mee Siam
b) Poh Piah
c) Mee Rebus
d) Pie Tie
e) Cod Fish Ramen


Andrew and his Favourite Snack
The Poh Piah is a favourite amongst the young and not so young alike. I personally like the Pie Tie and the Mee Siam which is a Peranakan favourite dish with special chilli belacan as condiment and the fried shallots for flavouring.


Poh Piah
One of the 'top 3' Poh Piahs made in Singapore,as rated by Life Food Editor in 2006. The popiah skin is kept airtight in a container and the Poh Piah is handmade by the Leong Family who run this small coffee shop which is a favourite with the neighbourhood College students (Hwa Chong,NJC), school students (St Margerets and SCGS) as well as working people like me and well heeled people from the neighbourhood. Price per Poh Piah : $2.20 is high but the flavour is slightly sweet and the ingredients like turnip and fish skin are very fresh.



Kueh Pie Tie

The Bangkwang (turnip) is slightly sweet and the pie tie filling is kept crunchy by sealing in an airtight box.Each serving comes with a slice of boiled egg and freshly ground chilli paste and parsely as garnish.

No Place Like Home

Books next to my bed

Its almost midnight, Tuesday 9th June and I have had an exhausting day in Kuala Lumpur meeting with 5 different groups of people for negotiations and working lunch. The pace has not slackened since I started my business,except that with more staff on board, things have to move at a quicker pace and higher goals to achieve sales numbers year on year.



As I chill out at the small open space outside my home, I ponder when the worldwide economic crisis will end and growth will finally come to our countries and what will be the engines which drive the world economy. We have had the Internet, the dot com boom and bust, the Asian Recovery and since September last year. Things have been on a virtual drop in economic growth,export numbers, visitor arrivals as well as tonnage shipped by air or by sea.


Andrew with his Famous Five Book

When I reach home, I am comforted that it is my refuge from the dog-eat-dog world and can forget about the troubles and pressures of work. The sight of my family and the warmth of the house is one which I remind myself that I must treasure for a long time.



Watching Prison Break

Small squabbles between the boys like who gets to use the TV remote and home PC are now taking centre-stage.They have finished their assigned homework today and can use some computer time. As the grow up and mature to be young men, I remind myself to Seize the Day and spend as much time with them in their growing years which will encompass many challenges,setbacks, joys, sorrows and excitement.


I am back and home and there is no place like it in the world for me. :)

Rex Hotel and Reunification Palace

Ho Chi Minh and a Young Girl Statue - His image is everywhere in the city of Ho Chi Minh

During my recent trip to Ho Chi Minh city, we had some time to visit the Central District 3 where the Notre Dame de Basillica (same design as the one in Paris) was located. Just 5 minutes away is the Reunification Palace of North and South Vietnam which represents the unifying of the country by the signing of the Reunification Treaty. In front of the Palace is the statue of Ho Chi Minh with a young girl with what looks like a giant key. The key to the future perhaps ??


View of Reunification Palace from 5th Floor of Rex Hotel

At night, the best spot to photograph the Palace is at the Rex Hotel, once made famous as it was used by the American GIs for their Rest and Recreation (R & R).
It is quite a statement that the Communist country which kicked out the American imperialist power is now free from alot of the vice which is so prevalent in many South East Asian countries namely Thailand, which used its 'freedom' to develop such an unsavoury industry.


Reunification Palace - between the victorious North and American backed South

This Palace will rival many grand buildings in the region and how the country will progress in the years to come is anyone's guess. I think that Vietnam has indeed a very bright future . American companies are coming in by the back door, that is through their subsidiary companies based in offshore countries in Asia. Intel and many Japanese companies like Fujitsu,Toshiba are already in Vietnam making use of its hardworking and still cheap labour force.


Strawberry Pork Ribs, Brocolli with Mushrooms and Sauteed Prawn - A veritable feast for both the eyes and the stomach

To feast on excellent food at a 5 star hotel at reasonable prices, that is what we lucky Singaporeans are able to do, as our country is one of the strongest in economic terms for the last 25 years. This spread cost the 2 of us only S$ 60 dollars, but in real terms for a Vietamese, it represents about 25% of his monthly salary !



Standing on the 5th Floor Verandah of the Rex Hotel overlooking Ho Chi Minh.

One of life's simple pleasures is to enjoy an ice cold beer and have a lovely meal at one of the country's top hotels, the Rex Hotel.


The Rex Hotel resplendent in all its lighted glory.

Vietcong Tunnel ; Nasty Booby Traps

I can barely fit into the tunnel entrance ; the floor below is about 4 feet deep

At Cu Chi, about 2 hours drive from Ho Chi Minh is the amazing complex of war tunnels which is open to visitors from all over the world. The stories about the Vietnamese heroism from simple village girls and boys who singlehandedly exploded tanks, shot many American soldiers is almost unbelievable. Yet the undisputed fact is that America withdrew from the 16 year war which they were fast losing and could never win. The Cu Chi tunnels are evidence of Vietnamese resilience in the face of a superpower's military might. Coupled with the will to survive and win, they fought and won for their freedom in the most tragic of ways.


Me going into the tunnel

I could barely fit into the real tunnel entrance,with my hands straight up into the air carrying the entrance over my head.Imagine a large American soldier attempting this !


A tunnel entrance hidden from sight.

The entrance is normally covered by branches or small shrubs. There are as many fake tunnels as there are real ones and only the Vietcong guerillas know which ones are the genuine ones.



Snapping Leg Trap

This trap is located below ground by a trap door.Once any unsuspecting foot steps on top of the trap door, the leg will fall into a platform and the jaws of the 2 spiked rows will close shut. Very lethal.


Hidden Trap with Metal Spikes

This is an uncovered trap roughly 6 feet by 4 feet covered completely in grass by a revolving trap door,once something or someone steps on it, it would flip over and the person would fall head-first into a row sharp pointed metal spikes normally covered in dung or chemicals to inflict unspeakable pain.

Cu Chi Tunnels ; Will of the Vietnamese People; Tunnel Heroes

Briefing on the facts of history and the estimated locations of the tunnels - very eye opening

On 2nd June 2009, I had some time off and had a never - to - be - forgotten experience. We went to Cu Chi,home of the largest complex of tunnels in Vietnam during the Vietnam war from 1959 - 1975.Located about 2 hours or 100 km north of Ho Chi Minh, I had an 'awakening' of sorts when the video presented the Vietnamese side of the 16 year war which saw 50,000 American troops killed or Missing in Action and over 3 Million Vietnamese killed. The greatest injustice is how one sided Hollywood had presented the War with the Vietnamese who just wanted self-rule albeit through Communist ideals made to look like villians and thieves. Many American troops committed atrocities to the simple villagers such as raping young children and women and killing indiscriminately either for revenge or suspected that the villagers were Vietcong in disguise or hiding Vietcong in certain locations. The truth of the matter was that the villagers were villagers in the day and Vietcong or sympathisers of the Vietcong at night. It was a case of fighting a 2 faced enemy / friend.


Our tour guide Mr. Tam briefing us at the entrance of the tunnel (!) See guide in green standing at the back.

The first tunnel was within 2 feet from me and I could not believe that it was even there ! Our experienced guide,Mr. Tam gave us a briefing on how long they had to dig the tunnels (it started during the short conflict with the French in the 1950s and carried on during the American invlovement) plus how they endured all kinds of hardship to get rid of the earth dug out as well as how many rooms and levels each tunnel was created for. It was indeed fascinating to see the demonstration by the guide who was standing by the tree.


Lift up the cover and down he goes !

The guide, dressed in green fatigues lifted up the wooden cover full of leaves and there was the smallest of entrances, probably 2 feet wide by 1 and a half feet depth. It could barely fit him in ! Once inside, he would get on all fours and start crawling into the tunnel which was pitch black and guided only by his flashlight, make his way along the tunnel. He would stay in the tunnel moving on all fours to get to the rooms below which housed a kitchen, small clinic and sleeping dormitories.


Up pops the hidden entrance cover and in he goes !

Living in a tunnel is some people's version of Hell but with no choice except this or be killed or maimed, the hardy Vietnamese people took to the underground like Rats to the Holes. The Americans had their volunteer soldiers who opted to go and seek out and kill these Vietcong and they were nicknamed the 'Tunnel Rats'. Many were borderline mad people or very immune to human suffering as their missions were either kill or be killed with either option very possible. Very few prisoners were taken alive on these missions.


Tunnel hidden from plain sight ; tunnel complexes in Cu Chi run into the kilometres in length !



Multi-layer Tunnel System with Living Quarters,Kitchen,even an underground Hospital !

People with phobias for dark and enclosed spaces would be terrified to be in here, but for many thousands of these Tunnel Heroes, these provided the many families and even entire communities who lived vritually underground for days and even weeks on end. The Americans may have conquered the land with their consistent carpet bombing, chemical weapons and " "Scorched Earth" where they bombed the land with all kinds of chemicals most notably Agent Orange and caused alot of untold suffering and creating hundreds of thousands or even millions of maimed civilians.

I have changed my mind about the history presented on the Vietnam War. The Vietnamese people are the true heroes and liberated themselves over a deadly Imperialist superpower who used their military superiority and money to overwhelm their enemies. Ultimately the Americans lost mainly due to their weaker fighting spirit and no will to win. Vietnamese resilience,mental strength and cohesiveness won the war. Not military might. The one biggest enemy the Americans couldn't win over was their own minds.

Ho Chih Minh Sights - 1

The Church of Madonna in District 3,modelled after the Notre Dame
Basillica Cathedral in Paris, France.

After a packed day of customer visit and discussions,my friend and I made our way down to the city centre,where we viewed the magnificent Church of Madonna, which is modelled after the Notre Dame in Paris.It is also called the Notre Dame Basillica Cathedral of Saigon (old name of Ho Chi Minh).The Vietnamese are free to worship and religion is dominated by Buddhists (60%), Catholics (20%) and the Christian Protestants. Many Vietnamese originate from China Guangzhou and other Southern provinces from the 1700s onwards. The Church in the picture was restored by the Government and there are about 10 small churches in various parts of Ho Chih Minh.


Stanley Wong outside the Catholic Church of Madonna

Crossing roads in Ho Chi Minh is very dicey if you new at it. Traffic at road junctions especially small ones are dangerous because the motorists DON'T STOP. They will slow down and dodge past you. It is especially crazy during RUSH HOUR when there are easily thousands of motorcyclists revving their engines and swerving all over the place.


Children playing on the swings,the slide,parallel bars and sand pit ; even in the evening !

The sight of a packed playground caught my eye. I have NEVER seen a playground where every single play station is occupied at every time of day ! We were walking back to our hotel at 9pm at night when I noticed that the playground was still FULL OF PEOPLE ! This reflected to me that the people are so starved of children's play areas in the city that they will spend a good half day traveling to the park and spend a few hours for their children or grandchildren to enjoy themselves before spending another few hours travelling home - home may be in the outskirts of Ho Chih Minh which can be 2 - 3 hours away.


The playground in the main park in Ho Chih Min is packed day and night !

We living in Malaysia and Singapore MUST BE most appreciative and grateful for our Governments with providing the following :

a) excellent infrastructure such as roads,traffic lights and highways
b) parks ,playgrounds and basic amenities such as shops and supermarkets in most housing estates - GOOD TOWN PLANNING
c) SAFE (especially Singapore) environment to bring up our children and families