How to Live to be 100 Years Young ? Keep mentally and physically Active.

                                                  My Uncle N. Vaithinathan turned 100 in August 
                                        (Center picture with my brother John and his family)

My uncle Vaithinathan turned 100 recently, and the family of whom he married my father's younger sister Esther Abisheganaden, had a big dinner to celebrate it with about 60 of his closest family and friends. It was held at the NUSS Guild House and true to his humble nature, he was his ascerbic self.

A very humble and devout man, my uncle Vaithi and my aunt Esther are the perfect couple soulmates, so to speak. They were teenage lovebirds and he was formerly the principal of Tanjung Katong Primary school. He retired at age 55, then studied law (!) and practised for 17 years. At 73, he took up linguistics and learnt and is still studying to this day ! He is a master of 5 languages, and never lost his faculties or wit as was apparent on the day of his birthday. He was known to bother his grandchildren about the intricacies of the computer usage, and the various types of Microsoft Office software, something I am ashamed to say I am lagging in that department.

He also would take daily 5km walks and is an avowed non smoker. He does drink the occasional whisky I believe. The secret to his logevity ? Keeping mentally and physically active and interact with as many young people as possible. Be needed by the community.

We are indeed blessed to be part of his family, and wish him many many more years of good health and joy.

  

Playing and Winning as a Team

                                          Doing the Ido shigyi (Movement ) in Karate class 

      It is one thing to do well individually, but as a team, far greater achievements can and will be reached. It is not easy to train, then gel the members together as one cohesive unit, but I am very determined to achieve that with my last try as a business unit with my company.

      The challenges are very strong now, from what we can see, but we will still need to press on ever higher to achieve the goals and stay the course so that when the economy does pull out from the bad times, we can again fly high. 

       Team building is always on my agenda, but team cooperation and coordination is ever so important for success. No company ever flies high due to 1 to 3 persons, it takes a cohesive and sacrificial team of perhaps 5 or more to achieve that.

       Lets do it !!! 

       

Work Hard till Year's End ; Payoff will Come

Christmas 2013 

This post is a strong reminder to me that, despite the tough economic conditions, the business environment still remains tough, manufacturing sector in Singapore still remains 

and there are needs to test and purchase equipment, only with more stringent conditions attached to them.

I must lead my team to innovate, be creative in our sales and marketing and not shirk new ways of doing the business. There are people wanting to take away all the hard earned wealth of our country, so Singapore, in particular Singaporeans have to adapt to the new climate.

Never fear, try new emerging industries which we have identified, and PRESS ON. Success is just around the corner, do not look at failure as an option. Only the strongest and the most adaptable survive.

 

Right Man for the Right Time ; Never Ever Give Up !

                                             England's Greatest Prime Minister, the British Bulldog


         In life, there will be everyone's 15 minutes of fame. Some people keep that fame for decades, some never achieving anything noteworthy to anybody. Then, there are the truly great people who happen to rise to the occasion when crisis strikes an institution, a community, a family, an organization, a society or even a continent. During the 2nd World War, a little known Minister called Winston Churchill was thurst into the limelight and became Britain's only hope of survival. By sheer strength of character, the British Bulldog coaxed, cajoled, bullied, mocked, and rallied through sheer force of his speeches a people who were bombed day in day our by the Nazi Luftwaffe.

        He put up a brave front, and is renowned for so many famous speeches when all else looked doomed. The famous Battle of Britain was fought above the white cliffs of Dover, and south eastern London. Many young men, barely out of boyhood, died or were injured beyond recognition figitning against the best of the Luftwaffe. Many dogfight strategies were crafted by 'kill or be killed' where it was a survival of the most cunning, or luckiest.

      "We shall fight on the beaches, we shall never ever surrender this little plot of Heaven, this our England" was his famous rallying cry. 

      To that ends, he was the Man who stood up during Britain's darkest hour and never backed down. The modern world owes him and the millions of Allies who fought, were maimed and died for the just cause.

     Sir Winston after the war was a misfit in Parliament, his time to shine was rightfully during Britain's darkest hour. 

  

Family Bonding Time

At my Brother's Christmas party 2013

My 2 young Men 

         When I was younger, I was always wanting to prove something to myself. Now that I am firmly at the age to reflect about life, I feel I am very blessed in life by God to have the family that I have, the business I have started and am still struggling to bring it to a decent size, the friends whom I have interacted and made over the years, and country I was born and continue to live in.

        A quality family life is the most important facet of my life. It has provided my stability in the most mentally strenuous of times, as well as an assurance that whatever the future holds, there is always my family as my rock to help sustain me. My faith in God is also another unshakable facet of my life.

      Raising a family surely has its challenges, its ups and downs surely, but the rewards are immeasurable by any materialistic terms.  

     Daemyung Ski Resort, Dec 2010 with son Andrew, and friend Aaron Leung

Fantastic Udon Noodles in Shinjuku - Thanks to Google Maps and a Food Blogger named Fried Man

                                   
                            Street View ; picture taken from Jay Friedman blog, Sensational Eats

Its Great to be Young

                                                Eagerly awaiting for tomorrow am 


The vigour of youth, the nervousness of the old, the caution thrown to the wind,
The tremendous expectation of what is to come, visiting a land so far away,
With youthful eyes unfettered by life's ups and downs, 
The Boy who will soon become a Man.

Let him fly, let him try, let him fall, and let him crawl
For when he senses that what the world is at hand
Then and only then, I will say to him,
My son, you will become a Man.

Seize the day, for what it is worth, 
Carpe Diem, young Man
That day we will never see again.