Fulfilling a promise made in November 8th 2008

                  Changi Business Park circa 2008

         I had put up a post sometime in November 2008 with this picture (go and check) and the caption said that in 2012, we (the company QRA Int'l )would expand into a bigger office in Changi Business Park before I reached the big 50 years. Well, subconciously I didn't know that and had forgotten all about it. Well now, in January 2012, we have since moved in to a 3300 square foot office unit, however, in the same building which we had our previous office size of about 150 square feet. The reason I didn't even consider Changi is because of the classification of Changi Business Park is definately B1(light industry) and whereas we are in the business of testing equipment and require B2 certified building.

         And  I am still 6 months shy of my 50th birthday !! 

         Kannan (from QRA Malaysia) had mentioned something about Paula Malai Ali (where is she now ??) as well as having a  nice looking PA (well I have tried, again but Ministry of Manpower from Singapore dictates otherwise !) 

       It goes to show, if you dare to dream big, aim high, then one day, your dreams may very well come true. Don't forget, it always starts with a vision, hard work, saving for a rainy day, watching your costs and belief in yourself that will eventually make you achieve what you set out to do. 

        Also, all input (in terms of wealth ,opportunities given to you and life experiences) and no output (charity work and generosity to the poor) makes Ricky a sad and frustrated boy.

      Seize the Day.      

Thank you for 4 eventful years !

With cousin Gerard in Kuala Lumpur 2009

      May 1st 2008 was the first time I started this blog. The title Seize the Day (not original I must admit,but meaningful to me) was an obvious choice. Since then, there have been almost 25,000 page views, yes the Blog counter is off some 8 thousand, but the kind people at Blogger have a tracking software on the total number of pageviews plus where and how many eyeballs per post.

     Interestingly, my main readers are from North America, and I have a total of 9 followers. These people routinely read my blog for entertainment and curiosity I guess, so somewhere out there are people who know alot about me, and I, nothing or next to nothing about them.

      In the 4 years since I started my blog, both my beloved parents passed away. My father, Geoffrey Abisheganaden on 20th September 2010 and my mother Anna Abisheganaden on 8th January 2011. I used the blog to express my sorrow and also inform those friends and family who are thousands of kilometers about their passing. My uncles Paul,Felix and auntie Terry also passed on. On a brighter note, I completed 2 more marathons in 2010 and 2011 respectively and learnt a whole new sport and lifestyle, skiing, these 4 to 5 years.  In addiion, I relearnt my piano last year (2011) and wonders of wonders, I joined this cult association called Facebook !  In reality, it should be called Wastebook, as a lot of idle time (as if I have alot of it ! ) is spent reading and looking at friends activities and posting of mine.

    Travel wise, I have visited 8 countries to add to the list, such as Egypt, Hungary, France, Korea, Vietnam, Japan, China (including Hong Kong), India and I am still very happy to say that Singapore is the best place to live for ME. I hope in the next 4 years to add to that list, so must visit countries such as Russia, Czech Republic, Taiwan, New Zealand, Lithuania, South Africa, Mexico, Brazil, Peru and Argentina.

      My business has expanded quite a bit, and we are offering test services now, rather than just distributing of industrial equipment. We have business in 5 countries and our partners are mainly from Asia. I am confident that the Asian century will be one of great accomplishment for my company, its partners and the employees.
    
    My boys are both teenagers now, 18 and 15 by the end of this year. Finally I will be approaching the big 5 - 0 (half century mark) by this year end and I sincerely hope that I have spent my time productively and give back to society and the people who matter most to me, my wife, my family, true friends and my supporter customers.

Carpe Diem !!!   Seize the Day !!!

    

Friends are the 'family' you choose for life

                                                       Wing Sun, Andrew,Noel and Wing Onn in Dec 2009

                                                                Mohammad Ali Mosque, Egypt

      We all have friends, some claim to have thousands, as evidenced in their Facebook profiles, while some have but a few. I can claim to have a group of perhaps 20 friends from all walks of life who I can really call 'true friends' as they will be there through the good as well as the bad times.

     When we are young, we are not as discerning as when we are middle aged. So we make friends like we drink cans of Coca Cola, not knowing that some may eventually be unhealthy for you.

     However, family is all important, as is the good values one has learnt walking through life.Honesty, Patience, Compassion, Focus and Hard Work are some values. Standing true to your Friends is also another golden value.Easy to make a friend but very hard to help them when the time does come. Money or the lack of it will always test the true meaning of 'lending a helping hand'.

     Even Simon Peter in the Bible betrayed Jesus when he was questioned about his relationship with Jesus. 

I love Paris in the Sprintime

The Arc de Triomphe taken from Avenue Champs Ely'see

       2 over years ago, my wife and I took a 8 day trip to Europe, 4 to Paris and 4 to Budapest. It was late Spring and the weather was perfect in Paris. Sunny, a little breezy and that crisp freshness in the air. 

May is into fashion, so we visited all the branded name shops along Avenue Champs Ely'see and Georges  V. The strange (well probably not strange to the Parisians) thing is now most of the buyers, say 80 pecent are by women is from Asia, particularly China and South East Asia. So there will be a some Chinese or Vietnamese Chinese (2nd generation, their parents migrated perhaps 30 - 40 years ago)  sales personnel attending to us. So, the sales people would be a mix of Asians, some French people (I am guessing) and some very handsome males (obviously gay) serving us. Paris is the gay capital of Europe, as San Francisco is the gay capital of USA. 

May, myself and some guy who happened to be in the picture,

Jardin au Tuileries (Tuileries Gardens)

 The city's infrastructure is rapidly crumbling, sad to say, as can be seen by the aging Metro, the horrible traffic jams and poor road maintenance. However, the city has a fascinating charm and joie de vrie (joy of life) to it. Parisians and the visitors love it for its playfulness, their not too serious outlook and their every changing fashion, which makes it a must visit destination for fashionistas the world over from Sydney to Shanghai to Sao Paolo. May enjoyed the visit so much that she went again last year for 6 days with her girlfriend to learn some French cooking, plus enjoy a wine tour. 

        

    With the airfares staying as affordable as they are (about S$ 1,300 for a return economy class ticket on Air France) and the 'cheap' EURO (compared to our strong Singapore dollar), I dare say we will want to visit Paris soon. 

      

    Cest la Vie.    

River Nile - River of Life

                                                                  Sunset at the Nile

      This was taken in December 2009, at Luxor along the river Nile. You can see the felucca's (sailing boats) berthed by the riverside and a cruiseship moving Southwards. The picture is quite beautiful and many thousands of years ago, the Egyptians lived (like today) along the River Nile, thus creating many gods and beliefs for their existence.

Statues of Amenhotep III by the Nile 

The reason for this belief was that in the very old days (5000 years before Christ was born), there was no technology like irrigation, and water retention tanks and the like. So in summer, the Nile would oevrflow its banks after the rainy winter and spring, and the land would be full of minerals from the river and hence be fertile for growing crops and feeding their farm animals. So life in Egypt and lower Africa depended very much on the river Nile to give it fertility and hence Life. They would pray to their pagan gods for good weather the following season, and give animal sacrifices etc. Such were the practices of the day then.

Simple Concrete and Mud Houses flanking the Nile

    The Nile is still a great source of minerals and nowadays, Tourism. Many cruise ships ply the Nile taking tourists from the world over to places like Luxor, Kom Ombo, Philae, Aswan, and up north to Cairo and even Alexandria. It is certainly a river of great importance and prominence.

Cruise ship run by Movenpick group of companies (Switzerland) 

    I call it the River of Life.

Target : Lose 5 kg by this year end

     Thats me just 3 - 4 years ago (2008) when my wife bought me a nice Zegna shirt, which showed off the lithe frame I used to have. Since then, my weight has increased about 1kg a year. Many people make excuses like "Oh its the middle age spread", that means that your basic metabolism slows down thus making it diffcult to burn off excess calories, for the same dietary input. You may eat the same portions, but the weight just goes up. The additional weight does my heart and lungs no favours, so the more lightweight I am the better it is for me. 

So my goal this year, is to break 70 kg. I am 74 kg now, and I will do it by sheer willpower, exercise and less snacking.

    I have done this before in 2002 - 2005 and I was weighing a slender (to me 66 - 67 kg). I felt energetic and motivated, running 10 - 14 km 4 - 5 times a week, waking up at 5 am and hitting the road. It was a tremendous feeling after the run, all sweaty, and then going for a nice cool bath or dip in the pool. I literally seized the day back then for 5 years or so. 

    The feeling of being so alive is wonderful. 

Egypt 2009 ; Will I be able to go there again ?

With the family outside the Valley of  the Kings

     The trip to Egypt in 2009 had an almost magical feel to it. We were transported from modern metropolis Singapore to a five thousands year old civilisation which believed in hundreds of gods representing the Sun, Moon, Earth, Underworld, Next World, all living things. All of these beliefs never stood the test of time - 5000 years. Now the major religions are Christianity, Buddhism, Islam and Hinduism though these are still at most 2000 odd years old.

      The trip was coordinated by the established travel agent Commonwealth Travel Company, and our tour guide was a competent lady from Singapore, named Anna Chan. We did our first part of the 9 day tour living inside a cruise ship for 4 days travelling down the famed river Nile, the longest river in Africa. It has spawned thousands of colonies along its lenght and many TV series and motion pictures have filmed its glory.

     The recent Arab Spring in 2011 has overthrown the long time president Hosni Mubarak, and now the country is in the throes of electing a competent Government though the signs of the country stabilising is not there. Many traders are moaning the loss of the lucrative Tourist trade when many millions of people would flock to Egypt to see the cradle of ancient civilisation and how the people in those days lived and died. A fascinating country to visit as well as a fascinating old world culture where the kings of those time, the Pharoahs, were more interested in the afterlife or death than in ruling their Kingdom. That is why you see the Pyramids of Giza, outside Cairo which are built for the then Kings of the superpower of the day, 5000 - 1000 years ago.

    It almost defies belief, that primitive people had the modern technology to build such engineering marvels that have withstood the test of time.  Many have speculated that there were alien 'friends' who helped in the design and fabircation, as the angle of the pyramids are set at 33 deg from the horizontal throughout, something which is near impossible, unless one has the latest field instruments - again something which is very difficult for the mind to conceive.

     The people those days rode by donkey, as is reported in the Bible too. Till today, the donkey and the horse is still used as a means of transportation ! 

Good things never lose their application I guess.