Respect has to be earned, a Man's word is his bond

  

     Sometimes in life, one learns lessons through school, or in the working world. As a leader and boss of a small SME, it is apparent that people's efforts, loyalty, motivation and morale are due to a multitude of factors. I have been managing a small business which has grown in size over the last 9 years. There are some staff I can call upon as friends, though in business, sometimes conflicts appear. So I was quite shocked to hear that one former staff has no qualms about telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. I am saddened also that he or she appears to be an upright person with good standing in his / her environment  and can resort to desperate tactics to harm the company when I have not done him or her any malice. I am deeply disappointed needless to say. Perceptions about people are about your words and actions.

      Business is business, yes of course, but a Man's word is his bond.

     We learn who are our true friends eventually. Seize the Day my friends (less 1).

Kara - Speed Up New Song

No doubt, I'm a fan of Jeremy Lin.

     Imagine, a 23 year old undrafted Harvard graduate, Asian build (read smaller in size than the Amazons of NBA), coming in and scoring 38 points against Kobe Bryant and team members. What s story !

     The make takeaway messge I have to all Asian parents is this. Yes, do encourage your kids to study. But education is not always about paper qualifications. Its about PASSION AND LIFE  EXPERIENCES,  TAKING RISKS after which you learn. So, the earlier one gets into the school of 'hard knocks' and gets up, the better.

     This guy so badly wanted to play, he was sitting on the bench on the bottom fishing New York Knicks. And he is a Harvard graduate,mind you, who will have no problems earning US$ 100K and above as a lawyer or legal counsel.

      He chose to pursue his dreams and he is now creating waves in he NBA. Seize your dreams and make them reality friends !!

Young Upstart vs the Old Wizard ; Lin and Kobe

Buying a washing machine in 15 minutes

    This article will rile some readers but this is the difference between men and women. As a man, I make quick decisions on the functionality of a household product, so when our home washing machine broke down, my wife asked me to buy one from the local white goods store, Best Denki, and I did.

    The store is located at downtown Vivocity, near town, and when it opened at 10am, I went down there with the specs of my old washing machine which was a Bosch 1601 L, side loaded, able to handle 7kgs and programmable for various temperatures and soak times. The only thing not adjustable was the rpm or revolutions per minute. So I got the attention of the salesperson, discussed price, specs, delivery, time (2 days) and WHAM paid in full. 15 minutes, using my debit card and it delivered in 2 days with installation and replacement of the old machine all in.

       Singapore and some Singaporeans (like lucky me) have things so easy, materialwise. We can purchase many items, maybe even a car without having to take a loan. We should be very thankful that we live in a clean, modern, fully developed, low tax country , run by a competent non-corrupt Government with top medical care,dining and medical care facilities at our doorstep. 

       Why oh why do some Singaporeans still whinge and bicker about every small inefficiency ? Life is too good that we need to nitpick ? Lets be more gracious and caring to the less fortunate in our midst.           

Jeremy Lin 3 pointer winner for NY Knicks vs Toronto Raptors

       The latest NBA sensation is Jeremy Lin, a Taiwanese American Harvard graduate, who is creating the phrase "Linsanity". His on court play is nothing short of wizardry, but the most amazing thing is his coolness under intense pressure, look at this play, with 5 seconds left, he goes for the kill and seals the game. What a player, an icon for all Asian players to emulate in the decades to come.
      He is making me a fan of NBA, when I never really liked the game.

     Linsanity !!  

Under Pressure - Queen circa 1989, starrig the late great Freddy Mercury

      One of my all time favourite songs as a teenager, Under Pressure originally sung by David Bowie and made into a all time hit by Queen. The charisa of the late Freddy Mercury is unmistakable, he has the entire 100,000 crowd at Wembly Stadium eating out of his hand. He could even utter profanities at them and they lapped it all up. One extremely talented man with a mike wields extraordinary soft power. We will never see the likes of him and his kind again.
      Enjoy the song folks.